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kanina may pinanood kami nina agathz pero ndi ko sasabihin kung ano...hehe..

anyway, consider this. you are supposedly in a platonic relationship with your best guy friend. and then you feel that you're starting to fall. and then surprise! he's also in love...not with you but with another girl. eh eto yun, kung ikaw yung papipiliin (o di ba, sadista!), would you prefer na friend mo rin yung girl na he's falling for or do you prefer na total stranger (well, you know, to some extent, stranger) saýo yung girl?


...dissecting the matter...

1. kung friend mo, syempre di ba masakit yun kasi first mong maiisip, bakit sya? bakit hindi ikaw?

2. kung stranger, eh di it means na super may conflict na kasi the girl is bound to interpret your friendship in a different manner (think paranoia and insecurity)

3. kung friend mo yung girl, hindi pwede yung graceful exit sa kanilang lives kasi masyadong awkward. as a friend, they would expect you to be happy for them...lalo na kung wala silang idea sa feelings mo for the guy

4. kung stranger, hindi ka expected to like her instantly tapos kahit na sabihin pa na dadating kayo dun sa "chums chums" alam mo na hindi mangyayari yun kasi faults na lang nýa yung nakikita mo. kahit na mag-deny ka pa, ang maiisip mo pa rin lagi, bakit sya pa?!

haaaay...

...basta same na masakit...yun lang yung sure ko...
  • (Anonymous)
    meron pa! paano kung friend mo yung girl pero alam nya ang feelings mo dun sa guy.. analyze mo din!
    • uhm...kasi pag-alam niya tapos
      (1) MU sila nung guy: i think its the unwritten rule of friendship na kung 2 kaung may feelings for the guy, you should let him decide na lang kung sino yung gusto nya

      (2) hindi niya alam or sure yung feelings nya for the guy: you still have to give way kasi admit it or not, you would want the guy to be happy...

      sino 'to? :)
  • nanood kayo ng close to you ano? >:)
  • hay nakoh...wag na lang ma-inlove sa friend...para wala nang complications... Para rin hinde na BWWWF! haha! :D
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